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Jeanne M. Hannah is a family law lawyer located in Traverse City, Michigan, who handles divorce, child custody, paternity, adoption, neglect, and other family law matters, and who assists fathers and mothers to exercise their rights to custody and parenting time.

Collected Articles on Family Law Issues Affecting Parents and children Today

These articles originally appeared on Updates in Michigan Family Law, a Blog updated 2 to 3 times per week.

By Jeanne M. Hannah, Traverse City Michigan Family Lawyer

Parenting Time Calculators | Help formulating parenting schedules and tracking compliance:

NOTE: This Article will also appear shortly on Updates in Michigan Family Law, a blog with 125 current subscribers and about 300 readers per day in July 2008:

Family lawyers are often challenged to help clients work out parenting time plans that allocate time with the child or children between the parents. Ten years ago, Stephen J. Harhai described the problem like this: "The fundamental problem in working out time-sharing issues is that it is hard to visualize or calculate the effect of a given plan without a lot of grunt work. We have spent untold hours marking calendars, counting days, writing explanations, and generally driving ourselves crazy getting a handle on complicated time-sharing arrangements." ["Tools of the Trade" column in the Family Advocate (Vol. 20, No. 3)] Fortunately, significant technological advances are now available to help family lawyers help their clients plan and manage the schedules of separate households.


Various software programs can now help family lawyers create parenting plans based on agreed-upon or court-ordered visitation schedules. These programs calculate percentage splits. The most important feature of these programs is the calendar. Not only does the calendar display visitation schedules and activities (extra-curricular activities, birthdays, etc.) but also holiday and vacation schedules can be shown on a daily, weekly or monthly basis. Reports can be generated of annual and monthly visitation. The latter feature is designed to be coordinated with the support calculation used by many states for “shared economic responsibility” based upon the number of overnights per year the noncustodial parent has with a child. These programs can be used to schedule parenting time, to record parenting time as it is used, to measure parental time, and also to schedule changes.

Family lawyers will find these programs helpful as they strive to create compliant parenting plans for their clients. However, parents and mediators may also use the programs. Additionally, some programs have been designed specifically to encourage and facilitate collaboration between parents and caregivers. These can serve as a means of record keeping for changing or gaining custody.

Parenting Plan Software for parents:

OurFamilyWizard: Parents may use this online calendar to coordinate schedules, share information, make adjustments to the parenting plan and track shared expenses. A detailed online calendar allows input of the children’s activities, events and other scheduled items, including drop-offs and pick-ups. Journals can be set as shared or private and are color-coded for each family member. An expense log can also be maintained as well as a message board and online access to important documents (My Files). Visit OurFamilyWizard here. Use this Promotional Code, when prompted, to receive a 10% discount on your initial subscription. "OFW for Traverse City Family Law website"

Custody Keeper, formerly ChildShare: This program can be used by attorneys and also by parents and caregivers to facilitate collaboration in the parenting time planning process. Custody Keeper allows the planner to set up a clear schedule facilitating joint or shared custody easy for everyone to understand. Custody Keeper allows users to track or plan time spent with children, as well as track expenses, events, incidents, support payments. Parents may log in daily comments on a journal. In essence, it’s the parenting time diary or log that all family lawyers encourage their clients to maintain. U.S., Canadian, and custom holidays are shown on the multi-year calendar. The program allows users to print calendars and reports (for yourself, your clients, or the court). Schedules and reports can be exported in PDF format, making it useful for family lawyers preparing exhibits for hearings or trials.

Custody X Change: This is a software package offers something a little different, and is used when a parent wants to compute and negotiate a parenting time plan that maximizes time with the child for one party (or the other). Calendars and reports can be printed out with the Custody X Change program. A free trial version may be downloaded from the website.

Kidmate: Created in 1996, this is one of the earlier computer programs for negotiating custody between separating parents. Kidmate was designed to meet the need for creating parenting time schedules and calculating percentage splits. The history of the timesharing/parenting time schedule, including compliance with prior orders, may be computed using the Record Keeper feature. Kidmate has some unique, patented features. One, in particular can be quite useful. The Percentages and Day Counter feature analyzes parenting time schedules four different ways (Overnights, Total Time, Quality Time, and Day Counter) and displays all results on the screen for comparison. Many states use the Day Counter, shows the cumulative number of days that children spend with each parent per year, for calculating child support based upon shared economic responsibility.

PCGreeting: The Parenting Time Calendar by PCGreeting was written by a programmer and a family law legal assistant specifically for lawyers to generate parenting time schedules. It includes holidays for Canada, the United Kingdom and the United States. Three versions of the Parenting Time Calendar are available: Single Year Standard, Single Year Deluxe, and 2 Year Deluxe. The Single Year Deluxe performs quality time calculations based on user-defined pickup and dropoff, and the 2 Year Deluxe allows the creation of two-year parenting plans.

Shared Ground: This is shared parenting calendar software that distributes time equitably between two primary caregivers. Parents may use default setting or may create a custom-designed parenting plan. The calendar can be synchronized with a Palm™-compatible PDA or exported to Microsoft Outlook. It is possible to show how much time children are with each parent using Shared Ground's Percentage Calculator. This data may be viewed monthly or, for the purposes of modification motions, an attorney or parent may generate an annual distribution report. Shared Ground also allows parents to choose from sample parenting plans and defaults and also to customized those plans. Family law attorneys and others involved in developing parenting plans for clients may purchase the Shared Ground Enterprise License.

Parental Collaboration Tools

Some parenting time programs encourage collaborative parenting and promote parental communication and cooperation. These enable parents to develop their own parenting plans and visitation schedules. Distinct advantages are that parents who negotiate their own plans are usually more satisfied with the plans that they are with a court-imposed plan. Also courts are more likely to approve the plans when they are negotiated by the parents.

KidsFirst! is a web-based parenting time program designed to help parents develop parenting plans and visitation schedules. KidsFirst! may be used in several different ways. In high conflict cases, parents may create separate accounts and provide separate answers, which can be kept private from the other parent. If the parents are committed to working together to facilitate the optimal parenting plans, they may share one account and answer the questions together. A creative feature of KidsFirst! In this latter approach is that the program compares the answers of both parents and shows them where they agree and problems that they need to work on to resolve.

Shared Ground: This program provides license that allows co-parents to use one single software key and two copies of the software program that is downloaded from the website. Using the software, parents create, edit and manage their parenting plan on two separate computers.

Tracking Parenting Time Compliance

OPTIMAL™ This is an online Parenting Time Information Manager and Access Log. Using this online tool parents may tracks complains with parenting time and custody orders. OPTIMAL is designed primarily for parental record keeping. Family lawyers frequently ask clients to keep detailed records to show whether the noncustodial parent is actually using scheduled parenting time. Parents can track the actual time used, the visit type (regular, denied, late, missed), denied visitation,late pickups and returns, mileage and expenses. It also counts and displays overnights and provides time-stamps to use in court. Many other features are also included.

Professional editions:

The following tools allow family lawyers to assist their clients in developing parenting time and shared custody plans:

Professional version of OurFamilyWizard. The professional account has case management features that allow family law practitioners to create parent accounts, manage client databases, store important client documents online (judgment and decree, court orders, etc.), enable communication with clients, create client to-do lists, and more. An OurFamilyWizard account provides the ability to review case status by linking information to parent accounts.

Custody Keeper, formerly ChildShare: This can be used by attorneys and also by parents and caregivers to facilitate collaboration in the parenting time planning process. Custody Keeper allows the planner to set up a clear schedule facilitating joint or shared custody easy for everyone to understand. Custody Keeper allows users to track or plan time spent with children, as well as track expenses, events, incidents, support payments. Parents may log in daily comments on a journal. In essence, it’s the parenting time diary or log that all family lawyers encourage their clients to maintain. U.S., Canadian, and custom holidays are shown on the multi-year calendar. The program allows users to print calendars and reports (for yourself, your clients, or the court). Schedules and reports can be exported in PDF format, making it useful for family lawyers preparing exhibits for hearings or trials.

Custody X Change: This is a software package that offers something a little different, and is used when a lawyer or parent wants to compute and negotiate a parenting time plan that maximizes time with the child for one party (or the other). Initially Custody X change was designed for family lawyers who wanted a tool to negotiate more time for their clients without having to manually re-compute every option. It is now also available to parents. Calendars and reports can be printed out with the Custody X Change program. A free trial version may be downloaded from the website.

Shared Ground: The data generated by this tool may be viewed monthly or, for the purposes of modification motions, an attorney or parent may generate an annual distribution report. Family law attorneys and others involved in developing parenting plans for clients may purchase the Shared Ground Enterprise License.


Article above posted on July 5, 2008.

Child's Preference in Custody Decisions Revisited (April 3, 2006) 

The frequency with which I am asked when a child can choose the parent with whom he or she wishes to live is not singular to me. Ben Stevens, a South Carolina attorney, writes the following in his Blog:

Rarely does a week go by in which I am not asked the following question: How old does a child have to be before he can choose which parent he/she wants to live with? Put another way, what is the "magic age" in South Carolina when children are able to make a decision in custody cases?

Fortunately, there is no such "magic age" in South Carolina. In our state, the Family Court must consider the preference of every child, no matter how young or how old. Of course, the Court is also required to place the appropriate weight on the child's reasons for having such a preference. This second step is equally important (if not more so) than the first one. The applicable statute on this issue is

Should there be a designate age at which children may make this decision? I believe that the answer clearly is "no." Why? Some of the reasons for my opinion are listed below:

·     Most children are simply not mature enough to consider all of the implications of a custody determination. Children love both of their parents, and if being candid, they would tell you that they want to live with both of their parents and not one vs. the other. To them, anything less can simply be unacceptable.

·     Most children prefer to live in the least restrictive environment, and this is especially true with teenagers. If you were a fifteen year old, which of the following parents would you pick: Parent A who lets you come and go as you please, stay out until all hours of the night, not do chores around the house, and not put the proper emphasis on schoolwork, or Parent B who has strict rules with regard to all of those issues? Which of those households is more likely to help that child grow into a successful adult?

·     Children are subject to improper influence by their parents or others. Unfortunately, a parent who is desperate to "win" a custody case will attempt to bribe a child to choose him/her over the other parent. What young child would not be enticed (at least somewhat) by the lure of a shiny new video game system, motorcycle, or dance lessons? What if grandma or grandpa offers those items to the child if he "picks" a certain parent?

·     Children do not want to upset their parents. In fact, it is not uncommon for children of conflicted divorces to begin to take on some parental responsibilities toward their parents. Could this desire not to hurt a parent's feelings or disappoint him/her lead a child to make a choice on that basis? Is that really in the child's best interest?

·     Family Court judges will tell you that custody decisions are among the toughest decisions they must make. Why should we believe that a 10, 12, or 15 year old child should be able to address such a difficult issue? A child should never be put in that position or allowed to make such a difficult, often agonizing, decision.

S.C. Code Section 20-7-1515. Child’s preference for custody to be considered.

In determining the best interests of the child, the court must consider the child’s reasonable preference for custody. The court shall place weight upon the preference based upon the child’s age, experience, maturity, judgment, and ability to express a preference.

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 Cohabitation and Real Property Ownership: The Problems with Joint Ownership When the Relationship Fails (April 1, 2006) 

Imagine that your live-in relationship goes South and the love of your life leaves. Imagine that the two of you have acquired a house together, and titled it jointly “with full rights of survivorship.” Imagine fifteen or twenty years go by, and you’ve made all of the mortgage, tax, maintenance, insurance, and other payments necessary to acquire the house. The house in which you and your former lover had a small – say $20,000 – interest (one acquired with your money) is now free and clear of a mortgage. Property values have increased and the house is now worth $250,000. Is it yours? Can you leave it to your children? Can you sell it free and clear? The answer to all of those questions if the property is in Michigan is “No.”

 

In a case of first impression, the Michigan Court of Appeals decided Wengel v Wengel, Docket No. 263657 (February 28, 2006) [For Publication] The specific issue involved is whether the doctrine of adverse possession can be extended to apply to real estate owned as a joint tenant with full rights of survivorship.

Cohabitation and Real Property Ownership by Jeanne M. Hannah, April1, 2006. [Word]

To download a pdf file, click here:

 

Learn how to avoid costly mistakes in property ownership that could deprive you of your valuable property rights if your cohabitation relationship fails.

 

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More About Whether a Child Can Choose Which Parent to Live With (March 25, 2006)

 I've prepared a comprehensive article on this topic. You may read "Can a Child Ever Choose Which Parent She Wants To Live With" here.

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 At what age can a child choose which parent to live with? (March 20, 2006)

 In early February, I wrote a post about this question. Then I left for a vacation and 3 weeks went by. When I returned and looked at my Blog, there was a comment (a question) from a child (a teenager, I surmised). This child's question / comment essentially indicated that he or she felt caught in the middle. The child expressed concern about trying to make both parents happy.

By the time I answered the question, the email address for the child was no longer operational.

This is the email I wrote -- the one that bounced back. I post it now because I see that someone continues to access that question on my blog. I hope that the person who asked this question will come back to the blog in search of more information.

I am sorry that my response to your email is so late. Three weeks is a long time to wait for an answer. I was away and did not check the comments on my blog.

Here's an answer to your question.

One of the twelve "best interests of the child" factors that a judge has to consider when deciding custody is the child's preference. It seems as though you feel caught in the middle and you want to make both of your parents happy and you don't want either one to think you love the other parent more.  That's a very tough spot to be in.

I don't know how old you are, but I am assuming that you are in your teens. If parents do not come to an agreement about how custody is to be handled, then there will be a hearing. During this hearing, the referee or judge will meet with you privately and talk to you about your preference. He or she will ask you which parent you would prefer to live with and what your reasons are for that perference. If you can give the judge or referee a logical reason or reasons to prefer custody with one of your parents, your preference is more likely to be given weight. A reason such as "my father is the parent who helps me with my homework and I really need his consistent help in order to keep my grades up so I can get into a good college" is more likely to be given weight than a reason such as "my mother lets me be with my friends any time I want and she lets me stay out later."  It's a good idea to give serious thought to what reasons you have for preferring a particular custodial arrangement so that you are prepared for this conference with the judge.

Sometimes kids feel like they have to say that they don't have a preference to keep both parents happy. Sometimes kids feel guilty if they tell the referee or judge how they really feel -- that they really prefer one parent over the other. It's important that you know that referees and judges usually respect the child's confidential statements, and you can tell a referee or judge that you would like him or her to do so. That way, you can say what you really feel, without worrying that one of your parents will know what you've said.

Divorces can be very tough on parents and on children. You might think about talking to your school counselor about how you feel, especially if you are feeling pressured, stressed or anxious about the custody issue. Your school counselor might be able to help you figure out how to communicate with your parents so that they are able to understand how you feel and to accept any reasons you might have for a particular custody situation.

If you, Gentle Reader, are parenting a teenager and are concerned about this topic, you might consider how important it is to keep children out of the middle. Judges and Referees make this type of decision. Putting pressure on your child to make you happy by expressing a preference to live with you is an awful burden for a child. It's also important to remember, that in most cases, it's better for a child to have two functional parents in his or her life.

I've prepared a comprehensive article on this topic. You may read "Can a Child Ever Choose Which Parent She Wants To Live With" here.

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 Single Mothers By Choice (March 19, 2006)

Things sure are different from 1959 when I was growing up. [How many of the girls in my high school class are on their 2nd or 3rd husbands?]

Modern times? Jennifer Egan writes for the magazine section of the New York Times today about young (and not so young) ladies -- career girls who've been unsuccessfully looking for "Mr. Right" -- who are electing to bypass the love and marriage and go right to the baby carriage. They're buying sperm online and talking about their experiences on a listserv "Single Mothers By Choice."

See, Wanted: A Few Good Sperm in the March 19, 2006 New York Times.

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Should Same-sex Couples Be Permitted to Adopt? (March 14, 2006)

This seems like a classic example of the Burger King chain's advertising: "Have it your way." In other words, political considerations often lead a potential candidate for the presidency to speak out of both sides of his/her mouth in the hope that all of his constituents will hear what they want to hear.

Although Romney said later at a press conference that same-sex couples may feel discriminated against by his proposal, he said that “there are many, many other agencies that can meet the needs of those gay couples, and I recognize that they have a legitimate interest in being able to receive adoptive services."

 

Romney is laying the groundwork for a possible presidential campaign in 2008, thus in recent months, he has sought to strike a balance between his opposition to same-sex marriage and his role as the executive officer in a state where such marriages are legal. The Boston Globe reports that in out-of-state speeches to GOP audiences, Romney often attacks the Supreme Judicial Court for its November 2003 decision legalizing same-sex marriage, which made Massachusetts the first state to do so.

 

Romney’s statements are less offensive than ones he made before beginning to position himself as a Republican hopeful candidate for the presidency. Last year, for example, gay-rights supporters accused him of belittling gay parents after he told a Republican audience in South Carolina, ''Some are actually having children born to them."

 

Also last year, Romney publicly criticized an effort to use gender-neutral language to describe parents on birth certificates, saying: "It's not right on paper. It's not right in fact. Every child has a right to a mother and a father."

Read the entire article in the Boston Globe.

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When is It Proper for a Court to Impute Income When Awarding Alimony (February 17, 2006)

 Clients are often dismayed when a trial court imputes income when making an award of child support or alimony / spousal support.  Explaining to the layperson that "imputing income" means that the court assumes that the person could make the same salary or wages that he or she was making in a previous employment if  they wanted to doesn't make a client any happier.

What about husbands or wives who have lost their jobs and who are still looking for work? When is it fair and equitable to impute income to them, and what percentage of their actual wages can be ordered as alimony payments?

 

On February 16, 2006, the Michigan Court of Appeals said imputing income to a husband who had been laid off for that an award that gave the wife 60% of her former husband's gross earnings was unfair and "clearly inequitable".

 

See Sanders v Sanders, unpublished Memorandum Opinion (2/16/2006)

 

In this case, the Court of Appeals reversed and remanded to the trial court stating that the trial court had wrongly imputed income to both parties. In the case of the defendant husband, the Court of Appeals found clear error on the part of the trial court saying:

 

"It was undisputed that defendant was employed while plaintiff was not * * * However, the trial court clearly erred in imputing additional income to defendant without finding that he had voluntarily reduced his income in order to avoid paying spousal support. * * * To the contrary, the evidence showed that defendant had been laid off eight months before plaintiff sued for divorce."

 

Similarly, the Court of Appeals held that the trial court had wrongly imputed income to the plaintiff wife. The undisputed evidence at trial was that defendant husband was employed while plaintiff wife was not, and that plaintiff had been unsuccessful in obtaining employment, yet the trial court imputed an income to plaintiff without finding that she had voluntarily limited her income to obtain spousal support.

 

The Court of Appeals remanded to the trial court for a redetermination of alimony, in light of the parties' actual abilities, needs, and circumstances, taking into account that the objective is to balance the needs and abilitites of each party in a way that will not impoverish either party.

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When Can a Child Choose Which Parent He or She Wants to Live With? (February 2, 2006)

 A parent recently emailed me with this question: " Have you had any experience with children who are 14 and no longer wish to stay with the non-custodial parent?  What rights does the minor have in this case?"

This question is asked so often that it appears that there's a common misconception that children have any rights at all to decide when they want to change their parenting time schedule.

Parenting time and custodial arrangements cannot be changed unless the parent filing the motion for a modification can show that since there has been a "change in circumstances" or "good cause" that has arisen since the entry of the most recent custody and parenting time order that makes a modification best for the child. The intent of the Legislature is to make it difficult to change the prior order to promote stability for the child. So unless a parent can show good cause or a change in circumstances, the Family court does not even have to let the parent have a best interest hearing on his or her motion.

 

In 2003, the Michigan Court of Appeals finally addressed the meaning of the terms "proper cause" and "change in circumstances."

According to the Court of Appeals in Vodvarka v Grasmeyer, 259 Mich App 499 (2003), to establish "proper cause"

 

[A] movant must prove by a preponderance of the evidence the existence of an appropriate ground for legal action to be taken by the trial court. The appropriate ground(s) should be relevant to at least one of the twelve statutory best interest factors, and must be of such magnitude to have a significant effect on the child's well-being. Vodvarka, supra at 512

 

According to the Vodvarka panel, to establish a "change in circumstances"

 

[A] movant must prove that, since the entry of the last custody order, the conditions surrounding custody of the child, which have or could have a significant effect on the child's well-being, have materially changed.

 

Not just any change be be enough to get a hearing. The Vodvarka Court ruled:

 

Again, not just any change will suffice, for over time there will always be some changes in a child's environment, behavior, and well-being. Instead, the evidence must demonstrate something more than the normal life changes (both good and bad) that occur during the life of a child, and there must be at least some evidence that the material changes have had or will almost certainly have an effect on the child. Vodvarka, supra at 513-514

 

Thus,  many Family Courts in Michigan are dismissing motions for a change in custody or parenting time without a hearing. One panel of the Michigan Court of Appeals ruled recently that just the child's preference isn't enough to warrant a change. Schemanski v Skank, Docket No. 261356 [Decided Aug. 11, 2005 ]

 

I've prepared a comprehensive article on this topic. You may read "Can a Child Ever Choose Which Parent She Wants To Live With" here.

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Resource: Child Custody Battles (February 2, 2006)

You can listen to a web broadcast of a recent NPR talk show titled Tug of War Over Children on Justice Talking. In this program, host Margot Adler talks to David Meyer, a professor of family law about the standards courts use to settle child custody disputes. The social implications of battles between moms and dads over custody are debated by shared custody advocate Dr. Ned Holstein, the founder of Fathers and Families, and Joan Meier, a law professor, whose work research and publications focus on domestic violence, criminal procedure, civil rights, and child custody.

Over 40% of marriages end in divorce. The battle for child custody and support are among the most common and contentious disputes heard by our nation's courts. This web broadcast focuses on the following issues: What do judges look at when making custody and child support decisions? Do moms get an unfair advantage? What happens when one parent snatches the kids and hides them from the other parent? Should teenagers get a say in where they live? What happens to the kids when parents break up?

 

Read more: Can a Child Ever Choose Which Parent She Wants to Live With?

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Neighborhood Watchdog  (January 30, 2006)

 

Lorne Gold, a family lawyer in Bloomfield Hills, Michigan alerted our Michigan Family Law Section's Listserv today to a valuable service available to anyone with Internet access.

 

The website for Family Watchdog published these statistics on its website:

·  3% of all sexual assaults against children are committed by someone whom the victim knew.

·  The typical sexual predator will assault 30 - 60 times before being caught.

·  The re-arrest rate for convicted child molesters is 52%.

·  We aim to reduce these percentages by ensuring that all sexual predators are known.

 

The Family Watchdog website allows you to put in 3 addresses  -- yours and/or those of your family members or friends. The service is free and is designed to  locate registered sex offenders in your area. When you enter an address, you'll see a map. You can click on the squares that appear, and see photos (where available), addresses, and convictions.

 

Family Watchdog has a simple notification service. You may specify up to three addresses (not zip codes) that you want to watch and the distance around those addresses. The website does the rest. Data is updated daily from multiple public data sources. As soon as a convicted sex offender registers an address in your area, you will be alerted. 

To use Family Watchdog, click here.

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The Impact of COBRA Payments on an Alimony Award (January 22, 2006)

 On January 19, 2006, the Michigan Court of Appeals decided in an unpublished opinion that a trial court has to consider the needs of the parties and their ability to pay when ordering a party to make the COBRA payments for an ex-spouse.

In Murphy v Murphy, the defendant husband appealed the trial court’s award of three years of COBRA benefits to plaintiff wife. The trial court had awarded alimony to her in the amount of $300 per week. Together with the child support, the husband would thus pay nearly 50% of his after-tax income to her before the cost of the COBRA benefits was even considered.

 

The Court of Appeals ruled that it was improper for the trial court to order the husband to make the COBRA payments without any indication of how much they would be and how those payments would affect his income. The court likened the analysis to one for alimony, saying:

 

"It cannot be said that, in awarding COBRA benefits to plaintiff, the trial court balanced the needs of each party or considered how much defendant or plaintiff could afford without any evidence or even consideration of the actual cost of doing so."

 

Thus, the court remanded to the trial court for further proceedings with regard to the COBRA payments and to consider whether the COBRA payments would affect the trial court's prior ruling on alimony.

 

An additional issue considered by the court was whether the trial court should have considered the husband's recent reduction in overtime when setting the amount of alimony. Since this issue often is raised, it's important to note the Court of Appeals' response:

 

"Defendant’s complaint that, because of his reduced overtime hours, the annual income imputed to him does not reflect his current income, was considered and rejected by the trial court. This was perfectly reasonable and well within the trial court’s discretion. Given that the number of hours defendant worked varied over the years (as did his income), taking a sample of defendant’s most recent completed calendar years of work and then averaging the number of hours worked is a very reasonable method to measure his income. If it turns out that defendant earns less income now or in the future, due to reduced hours of overtime, or any other reason, he is free to file for a change of alimony due to changed circumstances. Gates, supra at 433-434. With regard to the permanency of the alimony, defendant may likewise request a change in alimony when he retires."

 

Read the entire case of Murphy v Murphy here.

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Who Has the Right to Make End-of-Life Decisions? (January 18, 2006)

 On January 16, 2005, Massachusetts' highest court ruled that the state can withdraw life support from Haleigh Poutre, an 11-year-old girl who was kicked and nearly beaten to death. She has been in a coma since September; her adoptive mother and stepfather are accused of abusing her.

Since Haleigh's assault, her aunt Holli Strickland, who had adopted Haleigh, has died in an apparent murder-suicide, and her husband is being held in connection with the injuries Haleigh suffered.

 

The state Department of Social Services, which was granted custody of Haleigh after her severe injuries, successfully petitioned a juvenile court for permission to remove life support. Mr. Strickland challenged the state in court, asking to be considered Haleigh's de facto parent and to be allowed to argue for keeping her alive.

 

The court's opinion noted a long history of complaints about abuse and neglect of Haleigh to the Department of Social Services since September 2002. Since 2004, Haleigh had been receiving regular counseling. The DSS had been making monthly visits to her home, yet inexplicably, did not uncover  the extent of Haleigh's abuse.

 

"Some describe this as a case about death," the opinion said. "It should more correctly be described as a case about a young girl who has suffered tremendously from acts of violence and cruelty and who now will be permitted to pass away with dignity."

 

The opinion added that Haleigh's "memory will remind us, time and again, that we, as a society, need to do more to aid children who are neglected and abused, and thereby denied the care and nurturing they so desperately want and need."

Read the full report in the New York Times.

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More on Deployments and Custody (December 30, 2005)

 Attorney Grant Griffiths has written on his blog Kansas Family and Divorce Lawyer about a custody decision awarding custody of a 2-year-old to the mother after a father was deployed to Iraq for a significant period of time, rejecting the father's request for a delay under authority ot the Servicemembers' Relief Act.

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 Alert: Avoiding Violation of a Personal Protection Order – What Constitutes a Violation?  (December 30, 2005)

 

Sometimes a PPO may prohibit a person from contacting his or her former spouse, girl or boy friend, or cohabitant in person or by telephone, and may limit any contact to emails or writings. If the parties have children in common, such a PPO might permit specific telephone contact with the children and/or might permit certain kinds of exchanges of the children for parenting times.

 

The Michigan Court of Appeals just decided two cases – actually two separate incidents between the same parties that were brought to the court in two separate appeals – that should help parents in these situations avoid criminal prosecution for violations.

 

The issues before the Court were: does leaving a message on an answering machine violate the PPO and does driving by the ex-wife’s house violate the PPO?

 

There is a great danger of prosecution for criminal contempt if a party violates a PPO. A father or mother separated from the children will certainly wish contact with the children. It is very important to understand how a parent can get contact with the children safely without subjecting himself/herself to criminal prosecution, fines, and jail time.

 

Reviewing these two recent cases will help you to understand how important it is to consider carefully and to comply with the exact wording in the PPO to avoid a violation and criminal contempt prosecution.

 

Messages left on an answering machine:

 

In Ottevaere v. Tweddle, Docket No. 255776, decided December 20, 2005, a PPO prohibited personal contact with the children’s father’s ex-wife and permitted certain other specific kinds of non-personal contact with her. The PPO also allowed certain scheduled telephone contact with the parties’ children.

 

Later, the father was convicted of criminal contempt for violating the PPO because he left a message for the children on the answering machine and later called and asked the mother to put the children on the phone. The Michigan Court of Appeals was asked to decide whether the terms of the PPO were so vague that the order was impossible to comply with.

 

The Court of Appeals concluded that a reasonable person could easily understand the telephone calls the father made would violate the PPO. The PPO language clearly indicated this father could only call the parties’ children at prearranged times. The PPO did not prohibit him from contacting the petitioner-ex-wife by e-mail, in writing, or by means of a third-party intermediary. The Court, therefore, upheld his criminal conviction.

 

Driving by the house:

 

In a separate appeal, Ottevaere v Tweedle, Docket No. 259078, also decided on December 20, 2005, the Court of Appeals held that the father’s acts – driving by his ex-wife’s home – also violated the PPO. For this, he was committed to jail for 30 days and also ordered to pay a $500 fine. The Court of Appeals held that the trial court correctly found that the father’s appearance at his ex-wife’s home on the one occasion at issue constituted contempt.

 

In this case, the parents were divorced after a six-year marriage and had two children together. After the divorce, the mother alleged that her ex-husband had physically threatened her, had made harassing and intimidating phone calls, had repeatedly threatened to not return the children after visitation, and had battered her during a visitation exchange. The trial court issued a PPO that prohibited him from stalking as that is defined by statute and from appearing at her work place or residence.

 

The evidence at a hearing on the alleged violation showed that the mother’s fiancé had witnessed the father drive slowly past her house with the car window rolled down and that his child had also recognized his father.

 

The father argued the trial court was required to find beyond a reasonable doubt that he had committed a course of conduct involving two or more instances of harassment before holding him in contempt. There had been the prior telephone violation. The Court of Appeals held that because the trial court originally granted the PPO because it found the mother had established a course of harassing conduct by her ex-husband, any further violation, including his arrival at her home, (whether she was there or not), would merely add to the established series and continue the harassment contrary to both the statute and the plain language of the PPO.

 

The lesson to be learned: people need to be very careful to avoid being held in criminal contempt and being sent to jail. There is a zero tolerance on the part of the court system for domestic violence of any kind, as should be the case. Err on the side of caution To avoid the danger of being held in contempt, parents should try to involve third parties for contacts, should stick strictly to court orders for telephone contacts, and should – if possible – involve agencies to buffer child exchanges to avoid being accused of violating court orders.

 

See my website for parenting time options, which include Safe Haven, an agency organized under Child and Family Services, that provides services for safe exchanges and supervised visitation in the Grand Traverse County area. (Scroll down to Parenting Time resources). Similar agencies exist nationwide.

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Appeal of Cohabitation Decision (December 22, 2005)

 Today's Detroit Free Press related that Christian Muller is appealing to the MSC the recent ruling that he couldn't permit his live-in girlfriend to cohabit when his daughters were spending parenting time with him. The article can be read here.

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How a Trial Court Looks at a Move-Away Case (December 14, 2005)

 You’ve perhaps read the other entries in this Blog dealing with the so-called 100-mile rule – the statute that says, in part, as follows:

 "(1) A child whose parental custody is governed by court order has, for the

purposes of this section, a legal residence with each parent. Except as otherwise provided in this section, a parent of a child whose custody is governed by court order shall not change a legal residence of the child to a location that is more than 100 miles from the child’s legal residence at the time of the commencement of the action in which the order is issued

 A case decided by Michigan's Court of Appeals on December 8, 2005 illustrates how a trial court may evaluate a parent’s motion to remove the children’s residences.

 If you’re planning to make such a motion, you should check out the decision in Raneses v Raneses, an unpublished case, Docket No. 261468. 

When considering a petition for change of residence, a court must consider and address the requirements of MCL 722.31. Where a change of residence will effect a change in the children’s custodial environment, the court must also conduct a best interest analysis under MCL 722.23.

 

Recall that a custodial environment is established if over an appreciable time the child naturally looks to the custodian in that environment for guidance, discipline, the necessities of life, and parental comfort. The age of the child, the physical environment, and the inclination of the custodian and the child as to permanency of the relationship shall also be considered. [MCL 722.27(1)(c).]

 

This Court has noted that a parenting time schedule following a change in residence need not be equal to the prior schedule in all respects, and that even an established custodial environment with both parents can be left undisturbed following a move,

 

Other move-away cases you may want to review are:

Brown v Loveman, 260 Mich App 576, 590-591; 680 NW2d 432 (2004).

Mogle v Scriver, 241 Mich App 192, 197; 614 NW2d 696 (2000).

 

Read more: Can a Child Ever Choose Which Parent She Wants to Live With?

 

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Smoking in Car with Children: Pending Legislation (November 8, 2005)

 

As reported by the Associated Press on November 7, 2005: Rep. John Moolenaar will formally introduce proposed legislation on November 8 that would allow police officers to pull over and issue a civil infraction citation to drivers who are smoking with a person under the age of 18 in the car.

Information on Rep. Moolenaar’s website links to recent studies that show that secondhand smoke causes lung cancer in adult nonsmokers and impairs the respiratory health of children.

 

According to studies done by the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency, an estimated 150,000 to 300,000 children under 18 months of age get pneumonia or bronchitis every year from breathing secondhand tobacco smoke. For more information, see Setting the Record Straight: Secondhand Smoke is a Preventable Health Risk on the www.tobacco.org website.

 

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Should Family Courts Restrict Exposure of Children to Second Hand Smoke? (November 4, 2005)

 

There has been an ongoing discussion in the past week on the Michigan Family Law Section's Listserv about whether family courts have the authority to tell parents that they cannot smoke around their children; whether custody and parent time decisions can be made on the basis of exposure to ETS; and whether court orders that restrict the exposure of children to second hand smoke  -- either from the custodial parent or from a second wife or husband or a boyfriend/girlfriend are lawful.

 

There is no question that second hand smoke is harmful to children (and others) and that it is especially harmful to children with lung diseases such as asthma.

 

Lawyers and parents who seek to limit the exposure of children to second hand smoke will find authoritative support in the following:

 

Children and the Harm from Exposure to Second Hand Smoke:

 

The 1994 U.S. Surgeon General's report states that second-hand smoke harms children. Children who breathe second-hand smoke have more ear infections, more severe asthma attacks and more breathing problems than children who live in smoke-free homes. Footnote 1 Where tobacco use is allowed, children often have no way of protecting themselves from exposure to second-hand smoke.

 

The 1994 Surgeon General `s report also discusses the increased neonatal and infant mortality rates for children whose parents smoke. The pathological arterial change which causes atherosclerosis has also been observed in the umbilical arteries of infants born not only to mothers who smoke, but also to mothers who have been exposed to second-hand smoke. Footnote 2

Paternal as well as maternal smoking is associated with low infant birth weight. Parental smoking is also a significant risk factor for postnatal deaths, especially due to respiratory disease and sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS). Footnote 3

 

There is sound evidence that exposure to second-hand smoke in childhood is associated with an increased probability of developing asthma among certain at-risk children, and suggestive evidence that children who are not at risk and are exposed to second-hand smoke may have a higher-than-average risk of developing asthma. For asthmatic children, second-hand smoke has a causal role in asthmatic-related morbidity. Exposure to second-hand smoke represents a serious pediatric problem which has been estimated to double the risk of infection and death in children. Footnote 4 Children must be protected from the adverse health hazards of involuntary exposure to second-hand smoke.

 

Do Courts have the right to Regulate Exposure of Children to Second-hand Smoke?

 

One important question is whether Courts have the authority to regulate, by Court Order, the child’s exposure to second-hand smoke. Several State Courts have dealt with that issue. Although no Michigan Court has yet dealt with it, the following state court decisions in sister states may give attorneys some assistance in persuading a Michigan Court to regulate a child’s exposure to second-hand smoke. After summarizing these decisions, I have then included some reliable resources – primarily from the CDC and the American Lung Association – that will help attorneys and parents to argue for the proposition that the Court should protect children from second-hand smoke.

 

Harmful Effects of Second-hand Smoke / Custody and Parenting Time Decisions by State Courts

 

Disagreements between parents who are divorcing can, of course, cover a wide variety of subjects. One of the issues that has increasingly become a significant subject of disputes that have ended up before a judge in family court has been the exposure to ETS on the part of a child or children caught up in a recorded cases in at least 20 states (Sweda 1998).

 

In re Wilk v. Wilk, 781 S.W.2d 217 (Mo. App. 1989). The trial court in this case granted primary custody of the children to the mother, who had been advised by a doctor that the children, one of whom was asthmatic, should not be taken to the father’s home because he smoked. The Missouri Court of Appeals ruled that the trial court did not err in awarding custody of the minor children to the mother.

 

In re Aubuchon, 913 P.2d 221 (Kan. Ct. App. Mar. 22, 1996). In this case from Kansas, an ex-wife with custody sought permission to move with her children to another state; the ex-husband responded with a motion to obtain custody. The district court did make the change by awarding custody to the ex-husband after finding that the ex-wife’s smoking had harmed the children.

 

The ex-wife appealed, arguing that there had been no evidence to prove that her smoking had caused her children’s health problems. The court of appeals affirmed the district court’s change of custody, noting that there was evidence that her smoking had harmed the children: “That finding is supported by the testimony of three doctors that second-hand smoke aggravated the children’s health problems and placed them at risk for further health problems”

 

Helm v. Helm (01-A-01-9209-CH00365), 1993 WL 21983 (Tenn. App. Feb. 3, 1993): In this case, the smoking issue was not sufficient to produce a change of custody. [But Note that this decision is prior to the recent research and reports from the CDC]. Here, the trial court awarded custody of a five-year-old child to the father. The mother appealed the divorce decree, arguing before the Court of Appeals of Tennessee that the father smoked around the child. The court said that “Other than exposure to violent movies and cigarette smoke, no evidence is cited that the father has neglected or mistreated the child” (p. 2). The trial court’s judgment was affirmed, with the mother being accorded visitation rights.

 

Baggett v. Sutherland, No. CA 88-224, 1989 WL 5399 (Ark. App. Jan. 25, 1989): A nonsmoking father attempted to obtain a change in custody on the basis of, among other things, the fact that the mother smoked in the presence of children who were allergic to smoke. Although the lower court had found that circumstances were not so changed as to warrant a change in custody, it did acknowledge that smoking was detrimental to the children. The mother was forbidden to smoke in the home or allow anyone else to smoke in the home; the judge “made it clear that he would exercise continuing jurisdiction over the parties to insure compliance with that order” (p. 3).

 

Johnita M.D. v David D.D., 191 Misc 2d 301, 740 NYS 2d 811 (NY Sup 03/20/2002): This case was interesting in that it was brought by a 13-year-old child seeking relief from Exposure to Second hand smoke (ETS). The Court held as follows, after considering a varied amount of research statistics and articles, and taking judicial notice of their content:

 

If the Court does take judicial notice of these facts and articles, it will hold it is in the best interest of the child that the Defendant and the Plaintiff should be ordered not to smoke or allow smoking of any type either at home or in the car at any time so that Nicholas may occupy both free of ETS exposure or risks.

 

Nicholas' exposure to ETS based on his description and his mother's acknowledged smoking habit is unacceptable in any parental residence or vehicle or other indoor situations. The Court will find any avoidable exposure of Nicholas to ETS is unacceptable because said exposure will place him both presently and in the future as an adult at increased risk to develop asthma, reduced lung function, coronary artery disease, lung cancer, and respiratory disorders.

 

[U] In re Proceeding for Custody Under Article 6 of the Family Court Act (N.Y.Fam. Ct. 12/23/2004) 2004 NY Slip Op 51784(U): The issues revolved around Mother’s chronic smoking (as well as that of BF) around children with “chest congestion,” her denial of parenting time, and the fact that she let the children watch R-rated movies. The NY Court summarized NY decisions dealing with a court’s authority to restrict second-hand smoke, saying:

 

“It has been held in this state that cigarette smoking as well as marijuana use, even on occasion, may be one of the elements considered by the Court when determining custody. In Roofeh v Roofeh, 138 Misc 2d 889 (Sup. Ct. Nass. Cty, 1988), the Court ordered the Mother not to smoke in the children’s presence and only to smoke in one particular room in the home. In Lizzio v Lizzio, 162 Misc 2d 701 (Fam. Ct, Fulton Cty, 1994), the Court forbade the offending parent from smoking tobacco anywhere in the household. This was modified sub nom Lizzio v Jackson, 226 AD2d 760 (3d Dept 1996), in which the Appellate Court held that smoking alone is not sufficient to change custody where the mother and her current husband both smoked in the children’s presence. The Court ordered them to smoke only on the back porch or outside of the house. Similar decisions were rendered in Breitung v Trask, 279 AD2d 677 (3d Dept 2001) and Holden v Tillotson, 277 AD2d 735 (3d Dept 2000). See also Bjorkland v Eastman, 279 AD2d 908 (3d Dept 2001).

 

In Johnita M.D. v David D.D., 191 Misc 2d 301 (NY Sup. Ct., 2002), (later proceeding sub nom DeMatteo v DeMatteo, 194 Misc 2d 640 (NY Sup Ct 2002)) the Court stated that the mother's addiction to smoking, which may result in her developing lung cancer, does not outweigh the Court's duty to protect a child. That Court prohibited both parties from smoking or allowing others to smoke at any time in their home or in their automobile, due to the presence of the children, even if the children were not physically present during the time of any smoking incidents. The Court further stated unequivocally that secondhand smoke causes lung cancer and could very well do so in the children.”

 

The NY Court affirmed the Trial Court’s award of custody to the father and in its order restricted the children’s exposure to second-hand smoke ordering:

 

ORDERED, that the Mother shall not smoke within her home or any automobile within which the children may be transported, for at least 24 hours prior to visitation (see DeMatteo v DeMatteo, supra), and the Mother shall not allow any other person, including, but not limited to her husband, and M., to smoke within the house or any automobile within which the children may be transported for at least 24 hours prior to visitation. THIS PROVISION OF THIS COURT ORDER IS INTENDED TO PROVIDE THAT THE CHILDREN MAY BE IN A SMOKE-FREE ENVIRONMENT AND NOT SUBJECT TO RESIDUAL OR SECOND-HAND SMOKE

 

Day v. Day, 2005 -Ohio- 4343 Case No. 04 COA 74 , (Ohio App. Dist.5 08/22/2005). In this Ohio case, similarly, the reviewing Court had no problem with affirming the trial court’s decision as to custody and parenting time that, in part, relied upon a finding that the children’s exposure to second-hand smoke posed a health problem. The Court stated:

 

In her Second Assignment of Error, appellant argues the trial court erred in placing restrictions on the children’s exposure to cigarette smoke. We disagree.

 

The challenged provision is as follows: "Lisa L. Day-Carter shall not smoke in the presence of the children, or otherwise expose them to second-hand smoke." Magistrate's Decision at 3. Appellant herein seems to mount a constitutional challenge to the trial court's order banning appellant from exposing the children to cigarette smoke, but her brief fails to develop a cognizable legal theory in support. We note R.C. 3109.04(F)(1)(e) requires a court to consider "[t]he mental and physical health of all persons involved in the situation" in making a best-interest determination. Furthermore, "[a]n avalanche of authoritative scientific studies * * * is clear and convincing evidence that secondhand smoke constitutes a real and substantial danger to children because it causes and aggravates serious diseases in children, which danger is both a 'relevant factor' and a 'physical health factor' that a family court is mandated to consider under the statute." In re Julie Anne, 121 Ohio Misc.2d 20, 43, 2002-Ohio-4489. See, also, Unger v. Unger (1994), 274 N.J. Super. 532, 538, 644 A.2d 691 (holding that " * * * the fact that a parent smokes cigarettes is a permissible parental habit to consider when determining what is in the best interests of the children because it may affect their health and safety.") The Ohio Supreme Court has additionally recognized that " * * * the Surgeon General, as well as other health agencies, has concluded that secondhand smoke impairs the respiratory health of thousands of young children." D.A.B.E., Inc. v. Toledo-Lucas Cty. Bd. of Health, 96 Ohio St.3d 250, 263, 2002-Ohio-4172.

 

Decisions on child custody and visitation lie within the trial court's sound discretion. Bechtol v. Bechtol (1990), 49 Ohio St.3d 21, 550 N.E.2d 178; Trickey v. Trickey (1952), 158 Ohio St. 9, 106 N.E.2d 772. Upon review of the record, we are unpersuaded the trial court abused its discretion in crafting a provision to protect the parties' children from secondhand smoke. We state this holding with the understanding that the trial court will reasonably interpret this provision to avoid frivolous contempt proceedings for inadvertent exposure to public secondhand smoke.

 

Rulings in other cases have been the product of compromise.

 

See, e.g., Northcutt v. Northcutt, a 1997 case, a nonsmoking father objected to ETS around his 2-year-old son, who has asthma and has had repeated respiratory infections, bronchitis, allergies, and earaches (Sweda 1998). As part of a joint custody agreement, a Warren County, Tennessee, judge ordered the mother to keep her son away from ETS. Each parent was to have custody for six months per year.

 

SCIENTIFIC RESEARCH TO SUPPORT POSITION THAT CHILDREN SHOULD NOT BE EXPOSED TO SECOND-HAND SMOKE:

 

I found valuable information about the harmful effects of smoking, and of breathing second-hand smoke in the following publication: I. U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. Reducing Tobacco Use: A Report of the Surgeon General. Atlanta, Georgia: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, National Center for Chronic Disease Prevention and Health Promotion, Office on Smoking and Health, 2000. II. From the CDC: Secondhand Smoke and Children

 

What's the Problem? Children who breathe secondhand smoke are more likely to suffer from pneumonia, bronchitis, and other lung diseases, as well as more asthma attacks and ear infections.

 

Who's at Risk? Twenty-seven percent of children aged 6 years and under live in a household where someone smokes inside the house at least 4 days per week.

 

Secondhand smoke is linked to many illnesses, including between 700,000 and 1.6 million physician office visits for middle ear infections in children each year. It causes and worsens asthma as well as acute respiratory infections such as bronchitis and pneumonia and contributes to 500,000 physician visits by children.

 

In addition, smoking during pregnancy can cause miscarriage, low birth weight, premature delivery, respiratory problems in newborns and Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. Many people are unaware that smoke from cigarettes, pipes, and cigars is toxic to the developing fetus. A child who has had this type of exposure may experience long-term consequences.

III. From the American Lung Association: Secondhand Smoke Fact Sheet [November 2004]

 

Secondhand smoke is especially harmful to young children. Secondhand smoke is responsible for between 150,000 and 300,000 lower respiratory tract infections in infants and children under 18 months of age, resulting in between 7,500 and 15,000 hospitalizations each year, and causes 1,900 to 2,700 sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) deaths in the United States annually, citing California Environmental Protection Agency. Health Effects of Exposure to Environmental Tobacco Smoke. September 1997.

 

Secondhand smoke exposure may cause buildup of fluid in the middle ear, resulting in 700,000 to 1.6 million physician office visits per year. Secondhand smoke can also aggravate symptoms in 200,000 to 1,000,000 children with asthma. Id.

 

In the United States, 21 million, or 35 percent of, children live in homes where residents or visitors smoke in the home on a regular basis, citing Schuster,MA, Franke T, Pham CB. Smoking Patterns of Household Members and Visitors in Homes with Children in United States. Archives of Pediatric Adolescent Medicine. Vol. 156, 2002: 1094-1100.

 

Approximately 50-75 percent of children in the United States have detectable levels of cotinine, the breakdown product of nicotine in the blood. Citing U.S.Environmental Protection Agency. America's Children and the Environment: Measures of Contaminants, Body Burdens, and Illnesses. Second Edition. February 2003

 

Footnotes.

 

[1] U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. Preventing tobacco use among young people: A report of the Surgeon General. U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Public Health Service, Centres for Disease Control and Prevention, International Centre for Chronic Disease Prevention and Health Promotion, Office on Smoking and Health, 1994.

[2] U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 1994. Ibid.

[3] Klonoff-Cohen HS. The effect of passive smoke and tobacco exposure through breast milk on sudden infant death syndrome. Journal of the American Medical Association , March 8, 1995:273;795-798.

[4] Gridding SS, et al. Active and Passive Tobacco Exposure: A serious pediatric health problem: A statement from the committee on atherosclerosis and hypertension in children, council on cardiovascular disease in the young, American Heart Association. Circulation , November, 1994:90(5);2581-2590.

 

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Should a trial court restrict overnight guests of the opposite sex? (October 28, 2005)